Solutions not Resolutions

Solutions not Resolutions

I love starting afresh. Like, I really, really love it. There’s something therapeutic about cleaning the slate entirely and starting over. I have a habit of doing it too often, though. Or promising myself that I’ll do it and then not taking any of my new resolutions on board. I’d start with too many ideas, I’ll promise to do X, Y and Z.

In reality, half way into January, I would have given up on X, got rid of Y, and not even thought about Z.

So instead of making resolutions for the new year, I’m going to provide myself with solutions. Essentially, instead of telling myself what I will do, I’m figuring out what’s not working for me right now, highlighting problem areas and fixing them.

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Don’t Be Like The Rest Of Them

Don’t Be Like The Rest Of Them

I haven’t disappeared, I promise. I’ve just been exceptionally busy. I’m working a job I love, seeing my friends, buying wonderful Christmas presents, and yeah, it all sounds great but honestly, I can’t help but feeling, well, empty

I think we all feel this from time to time but right now, I’m feeling it more than ever. I don’t know whether it’s because I miss someone or something, or I’m not doing enough of something, or too much of something else.

I’ve tried sleeping until I can’t sleep anymore, going on day trips to clear my head, going on dates, cutting out social media, making new friends, trying new things but this hasn’t stopped my heart feeling really heavy.

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